We, as a society, are wimpy. We become more and more sensitive to every news article or Twitter post that rubs us even slightly the wrong way. We turn to social media as an outlet and believe it exists only as a means for us to vent our perspective. If we don't like something, well, instead of doing something productive to change it, we voice our frustration in a Facebook rant. Seven likes later - there, you feel better. You DID do something about it. You just changed the world, didn't you?
I'm not blaming social media for the current state of our culture; it had to be expected as the world grew more connected. We all have a right to be heard - I'm not denying that - it's just that now we can easily access an audience for our tirades instead of chewing the ear of our significant other or neighbor or co-workers over the water cooler. In fact, I don't even mind the obsession our society has with "being heard" and "making a point". I think it even offers an advantage to the "doers" over the "talkers".
Why do the "talkers" do what they do (or, don't do what they could do?)? It starts young. Parents these days (man, I'm sounding old!) do everything in their power to ensure that their kids are comfortable, regardless of how much they are being set up to fail. Megan McArdle opens her book, "
The Upside of Down" with a discussion on how schools are set up to let children fail later in their lives. Parents side with their kids over teachers, grade averages are increasing - not due to smarter students, but out of convenience, multiple valedictorians are named in the same school - sometimes in the 30's and 40's - because "no one wants to make a distinction between the kids". In general, everyone gets a trophy for participating.